INSIGHTS | CORENTUS FIRST FRIDAY with a THOUGHT LEADER SERIES

Rosi Greenberg Understanding your Inner Critic

Rosi explores the origins of the inner critic and sees its positive intent while saying NO to its negative impact. She offers us a new, more loving inner voice. Rosi shared her insights with us and our Community of Professionals Advancing Team Effectiveness during our First Friday with a Thought Leader event.

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About Rosi Greenberg
Rosi is a leadership development trainer and coach. Rosi supports leaders at all levels in moving forward with connection, creativity, and courage in a changing world. Rosi specializes in helping teams forge the connective tissue that sparks energy and joy in collective action. Rather than telling organizations how to make change from outside, Rosi draws on Adaptive Leadership, Internal Family Systems, and Narrative Storytelling to enable change-makers to shift dynamics from within their institutions. Rosi brings art and visual design into her practice to help clients see in deeper ways and engage their innate creativity.

Rosi is the author of "Everyone Has a Sam: Meeting the Inner Critic and Re-Writing the Rules," which tackles imposter syndrome through Rosi’s own vulnerable personal story, life-changing strategies, and tender, inspiring illustrations.

Rosi Greenberg Everyone has a Sam

KEY INSIGHTS | from our First Friday with a Thought Leader Event*
Rosi Greenberg, “Everyone has a SAM - Our Inner Critic”

  • Inner Critic as a Systemic Issue: Greenberg challenges the notion of the inner critic as an individual flaw, arguing that it is a "cultural and systemic issue" rooted in societal structures like capitalism, white supremacy, and patriarchy.

    "It is a cultural and systemic issue... Actually, if we look at it systemically, I think it provides much more powerful answers." 

  • Prevalence and Impact: Many individuals struggle with negative self-talk, impacting team culture and leadership potential.

    "Many, many people in organizations are walking around doing this to themselves internally all day, every day." 

  • "Everyone Has a Sam": Greenberg introduces a children's book she authored, "Everyone Has a Sam," as a lighthearted way to explore inner critics. The book uses the character of Sam, representing the inner critic, to illustrate its pervasive presence and negative impact. 

  • Five Steps to Transform Inner Critics:Noticing: Identifying and acknowledging the inner critic's voice. 

  • Seeing the Origins and Understanding Intent: Tracing the critic's roots in family and culture, and recognizing its underlying protective purpose.

    "Where does this voice within us come from in our families and in our cultures, and what's its intent? What is it really trying to do for us at a deep level?" 

  • Finding the Wisdom: Discerning valuable advice and truths embedded within the critic's messages.

    "What's the wisdom here? What specific advice does this voice have? What's actually true in what it's saying? And can I be OK with that?" 

  • Rewriting the Rules: Challenging the critic's limiting beliefs and establishing healthier, empowering principles. 

  • Inner Critics as Belonging Mechanism: Inner critics arise from the innate human desire to belong. Group settings can be powerful spaces to reframe these voices and cultivate belonging without negativity.

    "And so reworking them in a group setting creates that sense of belonging without the critical messages and really powerfully shifts for the individual. I think more than individual work alone can." 

  • Drawing Exercise: Greenberg encourages participants to visually represent their inner critics and the messages they convey. This externalization helps to depersonalize the criticism and gain perspective. 

  • Team Level Exploration: Applying the framework to identify and address collective "Sams" within teams, uncovering underlying assumptions about work and productivity that may be detrimental. 

  • Shifting from Enemy to Ally: Viewing the inner critic as an ally to understand and partner with rather than an enemy to defeat. "This is an ally that you need to understand and befriend. I think that is so key." 

"But what are the rules that we actually want to live by and that are actually going to be healthy for our teams?" 

- Rosi Greenberg 

Everyone has a SAM, by Rosi Greenberg

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